I’ve known for years that one day I would teach and speak and inspire others…but there’s just been this one little problem: I had no idea what my message would be. This premonition has haunted me for twenty years, until one day last spring when I got the crazy idea to start a blog. The idea nagged at me until I finally took it seriously. And then I had a BIG dilemma.
There was only one thing I could possibly blog about, and to do it, I knew I’d have to own up to a few deep, dark secrets. After all, you can’t just talk the talk. People only listen to what someone has to say if they have actually walked the walk. And since the blog idea grew stronger and stronger, I knew I’d have to share my story. So here it is…no sugarcoating: I have struggled with body image issues, food addictions, and compulsive overeating since I was 12.
Early on, I tried to compensate for my binges with anorexia and bulimia, but I hated being hungry, and my stomach was too strong to throw up. Left to my own devices, I tried in vain to fix this problem. Then ignore it. Then control it. Then just live with it. None of it worked, and so my life rotated on an axis of what I looked like, what I ate (or didn’t eat) and how much I exercised.
That’s no way to live.
The pain caused by this obsession reached a pinnacle about 4 years ago. It was either sink or swim, and I found myself ready to do anything to change. I reached out for help, and thus began a journey much deeper and more rewarding than I had ever anticipated. Suddenly, my message to share with the world was clear:
You’re either running away from the hard things in life, or you are facing them. And even though it scares you to death to stick around, in the end it’s much more painful to run away. Ironically, I’ve discovered that my food and body challenges have become a bridge to living life the way I’d always wanted it to be. An unexpected route, it is true…but it has granted me access nonetheless.
It’s a shame to spend your life wishing you could have what you really want, because you can. You can have a great life! I call it Your Best Life, and there’s not a doubt in my mind that you can create it. My suffering forced me to face things about myself that weren’t pretty. And I’ve realized that while the circumstances vary from person to person, deep down everyone struggles with the same things. They want to know they matter. They want to feel peace in their lives. They want to have purpose. That is what living Your Best Life is all about. And you are entitled to all of these things. Yes. You!
This blog is a collection of all the tips and tricks I’ve learned along the way. I’ve dabbled in Professional Organizing. I’ve immersed myself in a healthy lifestyle, including nutrition and exercise. I’ve dedicated my life to raising a family. I want to share all of these things because they contribute to living Your Best Life. But in my heart of hearts, what I really want you to know is that when you are in those dark places in life, you’re not alone. I’ve been there, and I’ve seen the light. This blog is the first step in sharing that light with you.
I hope this blog can help you become a Happier Gal. Follow it, take advantage of the tips and programs, and share your experiences along the way. The time for Your Best Life is now, my friend! Because life is short, and you get one shot at it…so make it a happy one!
Wishing you Your Best Life,